By Diane I'm not sure where to start but this is my story so far. My name is Diane and I'm a carer for my adult daughter, Lili, who is completely bedbound with very severe myalgic enceplalomyelitis. For Lili, M.E. didn't come slowly. It very rudely crashed into her life and very quickly stole her health, taking bigger and bigger chunks of it as she deteriorated. It all began when she experienced a gastric-flu virus of a sort she had never experienced before because this time she never regained her health. A couple days later, she woke up with agonising head pain 'like her brain was on fire', with severe neck pain – she also couldn't move her neck, and her whole body was paralysed. She's not sure how long she stayed like this as she was in and out of consciousness but she truly felt that she was going to die because her body was undergoing an extreme crisis. To cut a long story short, it took a year to get a diagnosis durin...
Greg, you have such a kind and generous spirit. You do so much for Linda, she is trapped in a neverending struggle. I hope she can learn to relax her body somehow as this will allow oxygen to flow through and ease the build up of acid.
ReplyDeleteI hope you yourself get moments of peace and that someone is there to care for you too. You are both so strong, I wish you would allow yourselves to not fight for your cause day in, day out, and just give yourselves some time off as I'm sure it would benefit both of your health and wellbeing.
Bless you ! Thank you so much. Yes, what you say is true; our greatest longing is to not have to keep struggling like this but the injustice, the suffering is so immense. Sadly there is no escape, it has invaded every moment of our life together,our effort, most days, is spent on coping and survival.More than two decades have passed; the depths of agony, the wilderness of Very Severe ME, that Linda knows, defies description in its horror and complexity. I am determined to fight back with everything I have got.xx
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